Step 1: Choose the right college

If you’re going to college for the Asian chicks/dudes, then obviously find one that has a sizeable Asian population. You’re going to find that a lot of these colleges are in California and Hawaii. Let’s start with the top-tier colleges, which include UCLA, UC Berkeley, UPenn, Stanford, and USC. If you don’t have the right credentials then you may want to apply for a second-tier school such as University of Texas at Austin, UC Davis, or UC San Diego. Still can’t make one of these? Then try for a lower-tier college like UC Irvine, UC Santa Barbara, and University of Hawaii at Honolulu. Still can’t make it into these? No worries, your best bet is to try a community college in California and then transfer into a UC school.

Obviously there are many other schools out there with a large Asian population. Just try to find some statistics for your college before you decide to apply if you know that you want to have easy access to many other Asian students.

Step 2: Greek Life

Now that you’ve been admitted, where can you start meeting other Asians? Almost all colleges have sororities/fraternities, and if you chose a college with a sizable Asian population, then most likely they will have a chapter of some Asian sorority/fraternity. The first month or so of a semester is a college’s “rush” period, where new students usually are invited to many sorority/fraternity parties. Once you find out who the Asian sororities/fraternities are, check out their groups on Facebook or try to locate a few members to give you info on their rush events. These events are usually free for “rushees.” These events are opportune times to meet Asians of the opposite sex. Use this time to also make friends with the fraternity brothers/sorority sisters on campus so you can have special treatment later in the semester. You are not obligated at all to join the fraternity or sorority if you attend these events; however, joining a sorority or fraternity will further guarantee that you meet many desirable Asians of the opposite sex.

Many fraternities will hold mixers with a sister sorority. These mixers are small get-togethers with another sorority to let the potential new members meet each other. This is a great opportunity for one-on-one interaction if you are not particularly comfortable with large groups of people. This is also one of the main times you can connect with other new freshmen rushees.

A lot of times there will be more than one Asian sorority/fraternity on campus. It is in your best interest to try and attend rush events for all of them if you can (UC schools have a bunch). Start getting acclimated to the party/club scene so you will feel more comfortable meeting people in these areas.

There are some problems with the girls you might meet at clubs and parties. The quality of their character may not be what you want. The typical hot law student might be studying instead of going to parties. Also I’ve found that it’s much harder to capture a girl’s attention at a club/party because a high quality girl will have several men vying for their attention at one time. A good tactic is to try dancing with someone, and then sitting down with them in an isolated area to talk and exchange numbers. Then meet outside the party/club so you can actually connect with them without the rush and noise of a loud club.

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Step 3: Asian Groups

If you’re not much into the party scene or Greek life, then you should check out the Asian clubs on campus. Almost every college will have some Asian-interest clubs (some examples include Chinese Student Association, China Cares, Asian Business Students of America, etc). By walking through campus you will probably see students promoting these clubs so you should listen to them if you have a chance. Meeting people in large organizations may seem like a daunting task, but you’ll find that many of these groups have icebreaker activities that make it very easy to meet people on a smaller scale such as special sports groups or volunteer groups.

If you have trouble finding any Asian groups on campus, you should try checking out your school’s website and then searching for groups on Facebook. Join the Facebook group so you can be notified whenever there’s an event.

Volunteer groups are especially good for fellas because for some reason, hot Asian girls love to volunteer (must be so that they can meet nice guys).

The problem I find with joining Asian groups is that sometimes it may be more unnatural to flirt with people, since most of them are actually joining the groups for their cause. On the other hand, girls and guys visit clubs because they are in the mood to flirt and meet new people. Be in tune to the situation before you do something like ask a girl for a threesome at a volunteer group (I’ve only done this while drunk – it wasn’t pretty).

Step 4: Making Friends

So even if you aren’t successful at trying to meet someone special at a party, a club, or an organization, there’s still hope for you. So even if you don’t connect romantically with someone, becoming friends with them will just increase your social network. I’ve met tons of Asian people just because a new friend introduced me. Stop to chat with them a little bit, add them on Facebook, and see where it goes. Most likely you’ll run into them again, where you can chat together and maybe arrange a date later.

For guys, surrounding yourself with hot Asian female friends will only help your chances. She may be beautiful, but realize that she also has many beautiful female friends. The same applies for girls. Sometimes making friends with someone can be more useful than making boyfriends/girlfriends.

Conclusion

I would say that the main thing you should do to meet Asian people is to enroll in a school that has a large Asian population. This alone pretty much guarantees you will have access to a lot of Asians because you can meet them almost anywhere. Having a large Asian population also ensures that the school will have a number of Asian groups and a healthy Asian Greek life. After that all it takes is some initiative and some networking.

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