If you’re an Asian male, you may have this notion that you “don’t attract white girls” or that “white girls don’t like Asian guys.” I’ve always pondered this question a little bit, and movies like Wong Fu’s “Yellow Fever” definitely reinforce this idea that white girls don’t like Asian guys. But is this really true?
My new friend, The Asian Playboy (aka JT Tran) sure doesn’t think so. If you haven’t heard of him yet, then you should pay attention. He’s the head coach of a dating and attraction coaching company called the ABCsofAttraction that he created himself. He’s been featured extensively in many magazines and online media. He’s been interviewed on network television. He’s lectured at Harvard University. He dates lots of women, and more specifically, he dates lots and lots of white women (currently he’s in a long term relationship with two women, one Asian and one white, both of whom are okay with his polygamy). The Asian Playboy is not tall or particularly good looking, but he’s got this incredible charisma that screams sex-appeal. This guy is the real deal folks, and he’s got credentials to prove it.
He recently contacted me about his new 60-minute audio CD that reveals his personal beliefs about the whole Asian Male White Female issue. He sent me a copy of the CD and asked me to take a listen. (You can get this on his website. Details after you read through my review).
I listened. And then I listened again. Then I showed it to my friend and we both listened. We were fascinated.
Well I’ve never had terrible issues with white women. In fact I’ve dated a couple before (although one was half-Asian). But it’s true that if I do want to date someone white, it’s usually a struggle. A part of me also believes the idea that white girls aren’t really attracted to Asian men. But I thought, hey, it’s no big deal since I love Asian girls a lot anyways.
But sometimes, you just want some variety. Asian girls are great, don’t get me wrong, but most of them lack in certain feminine areas that really turn me on. I’m not stereotyping, but this is true with every Asian girl I’ve ever dated in the past. My friend has the same idea. He loves Asian girls, but at the same time, really CRAVES a white girl. I can’t count how many times we’ve said things like, “Hey, I really want my next girlfriend to be white.” But he’s even more messed up in the head than me. He told me straight up, “White guys are better than Asian guys” which to me is a terrible mindset to adopt. A lot of Asian guys have the same mindsets, and it doesn’t help that 1 out of every 4 Asian women marries someone outside their race (in Western countries).
What the Asian Playboy’s CD really does is help dispel the myths about Asian guys and White Females. White girls DO LIKE ASIAN GUYS. Some white girls even have “yellow fever.” In the CD, The Asian Playboy even talks about gorgeous white girls who have sent him fan mail saying that they would like to try an Asian guy, but its the Asian guys themselves who don’t want to talk to them. Or that they LOVE dating their Asian boyfriend.
The CD was great, and I absorbed all 60 minutes of it with pleasure. It doesn’t drag on. Everything is incredibly interesting. JT and William (both of whom are featured on the CD) are both funny and informative.
While I agree that some Asian men do lack social skills, the outlook for us isn’t that bad. We make it bad by beating ourselves up over it. We make it bad by not taking the initiative to become good with women.
So let’s breakdown what I thought were the most helpful aspects of the CD.
Chapter 1
Why white females dislike Asian males is a myth – JT breaks down why White females are mostly neutral when it comes to dating Asian men (not negative like most Asian men would think).
Look from a white females perspective – It was very interesting to hear fan mail from white females talking about Asian men. Asian guys aren’t dating white women not due to lack of interest from white women, but due to lack of initiative from Asian men.
Asian men do have problems with dating, but we’re not fixing them – Asian men don’t seek help for these things because of their “shame.”
Why Asian men have certain disadvantages with women in America – We weren’t taught the foundation for game by our fathers. We need to learn them ourselves.
What is the real truth that Asian men aren’t dating great numbers of white women – Because white women actually don’t think Asians are attracted to them. It’s not the other way around.
How the media relates to Asian men’s problems in dating – The media reinforces things for Asian guys that worsens our self-image. Forget about the media and focus on improving yourself!
Chapter 2
Tips for improving yourself – Number one is “Stop being negative and complaining about Asian problems!”
Great Fashion Tips – Asian guys need a lot of help in this area. How many of you wore the shirts that were 3 sizes too big because your parents told you that you’d grow into it?
How to Rewire your Brain – Getting rid of negative mindsets and replacing them with positive mindsets. It’s not as easy as you think it is!
How to start talking to a girl – These are called “KAMIKAZE” openers. Three openers you can use TONIGHT to start a great conversation.
Chapter 3
Personal Stories – These personal stories by William (he’s an associate of the Asian Playboy) will help you to relate. In one instance a girl he met told him straight up that she “doesn’t find Asian men attractive” and through perseverance he changed her mind about Asian men.
It’s up to us Asian men to change the White female’s perspective – Around 90% of all the white women that Asian Playboy dated have never dated an Asian man. It’s up to Asian men to take initiative and raise that percentage.
Staying Positive Even Through Racism – Even if the woman you’re on a date with decides to insult Asian men, stay calm. Be okay with it. Stay cool. Think about what’s going on. Are you going to become a wimp at this point or will you stay confident?
Are you interested yet?
I’ve listened to the 60 minute audio, and you can too. Best of all. JT is giving this out for free.
Yes you’ve heard it right. It’s absolutely free.
I thought JT was stupid to not charge for this product. All you have to do is sign up for his newsletter on his website. Not only that, but whoever subscribes to his newsletter receives the 33 page ebook “Enter the PUA” as well as a 4-week ecourse, all for free.
Go to ABCsofAttraction.com and sign up for the newsletter. It’s free so what do you really have to lose? Take a listen to the CD and read his e-book, and check out his e-course.
If you want to date white women, this is your chance to finally do so.
Written by Editorial Staff