This is a topic that I want to write about because I remember the time when my friend told me: “When I start making 6 figures, the women are going to flock to me.”
Now, six years later, after graduating from MIT, he asked me this: “I haven’t had a girlfriend for a while. Can you introduce me to someone?”
Poor guy. He drives a BMW. He owns an incredibly nice condo (although a little dirty since he hasn’t had women over). He makes six figures. He’s single.
If some of you guys are going into the dating world with the mentality that having money is going to solve all your problems then forget about it. Money solves nothing.
I’m willing to assume that a lot of men think that money will help them get women. Some guys think that if you drive a nice car and wear nice clothes that it’s going to magically get you the woman of your dreams. I’ve seen this mainly when I was younger. Right after college I knew that guys would work non-stop in order to try and make money, hoping that this is going to be their one solution to getting with a great girl.
If you’re relying on money to get you beautiful women, then you’re going to go down a slippery road. True, money DOES help, but having ONLY money and nothing else to offer will definitely be your downfall.
Asian men especially have a habit of working too hard and relying on their money to meet women. I’ve seen a TON of problems that stem from a guy’s reliance on using his money, his financial “status,” to try and impress women. The problem is that even though he’s got money, all he ends up doing is working and working. Maybe he’ll work 60 hours a week trying to keep earning that money. Soon he’ll realize that even though he’s got tons of money now and is driving a nice car, he still doesn’t know how to go to a club and approach a hot girl, or he’ll realize that being in an office all day is not helping him meet any women. Or maybe when he does somehow get a girl on a date, he gets nervous and starts talking about the stock market. In the end he settles with a woman that his mother sets him up with or that he meets through a friend. She’s nice, caring, but she’s not the type of girl he really wants. She’s not the beautiful super model that he wanted to end up with. He pretends he is happy. They have kids. He goes on with life, believing that it was just his destiny to have no chance with beautiful women.
What Happens When Your Only Asset is Money?
You’ll attract gold-diggers – Hot girls that are dating you just for your money
Your girl may end up cheating on you – If you can’t satisfy her emotional or sexual needs, she may and probably will cheat on you. She has your money and she also has another more attractive man’s cock. It’s win-win for her.
Your wife may divorce you, taking away half your assets – She’ll cite irreconcilable differences and it’s because she only dated you for your money. She thought that maybe she could get past the fact that you are about as interesting as an eraser, but in the end she realizes that she can’t and would just be ok taking your funds.
You’ll think you’re in love, but she isn’t – She will fake the idea of love just because she momentarily got caught up with the fact that you’re incredibly rich
She won’t want to have sex with you – Sex is going to be a chore for her. She doesn’t think you’re attractive, you don’t know how to turn her on, and you don’t satisfy her in bed.
You may cheat on her, probably with a prostitute – Since your wife isn’t satisfying you, you’ll probably have to go elsewhere to satisfy your physical urges. Seeing as you can’t even get someone else attracted, your only hope is with a prostitute.
You may settle for a not-so-great girl – Finally someone loves you? But she probably isn’t the trophy wife that you were hoping for. In fact she’s a little on the chubby side. And not cute.
IN CONCLUSION
If you haven’t had any luck with dating and you keep thinking to yourself that once you are making the big bucks you’ll land the girl of your dreams, think again. Instead of relying on money, learn some real seduction and dating skills.
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Written by Steven Lin