It is really hard for some Asian guys to grasp the idea that they too can date a woman of another race, whether it be Caucasian, Black, or Latina. I’ve had friends come to me saying things like, “That girl is hot. Too bad I’ll never be able to date her. She’s white.” This seems to be common amongst Asian guys. However, I’m here to tell you that any man, Asian, Black, White, can attract ANY race of woman.
That’s because attraction isn’t based on race at all. I’m an Asian man who’s dated White, Asian, Latina, and Black women. I’ve dated women that have never been attracted to Asian men at all.
It’s really not all that hard for Asian men to get with White women. It’s just that we’re usually always around Asian girls and we’re so comfortable with Asians, that sometimes it seems like it might be too much of a hassle to try and get with a White girl. This is something that I’ve seen even with Asian guys that are good with women; they stick to Asian girls.
Asian girls are smoking hot, but sometimes it’s also nice to get a little variety. I’m not one to stereotype, but sometimes the upper body on an Asian girl just doesn’t cut it for me. And some culture never hurt anybody right?
So how do we get you, an Asian man who has never been with a White girl, into the right frame of mind so that you can start dating and sleeping with White girls?
Here are my five tips to help you get started dating the White/Latina/Black girls of your dreams!
Go to Places Where White Women WILL be! And Meet them
When I started trying to learn seduction skills, I realized that I love the beauty of White girls, but I was still only getting numbers and dates from Asian girls. Why was that? I realized that I was TOO scared to go to places where I was the only Asian guy and everyone else was White. So because of that, I would always try to meet girls in Asian clubs. Why do that? Start going to clubs where there is a sizeable White (or whatever race you like) population, and get the balls to go up to them and strike up conversation.
Make non-Asian friends
Is it hard for you to hang out with non-Asians? It shouldn’t be. All through High School and College I had hung out with a predominantly Asian group of people because my schools had a ton of Asians. Once I got out of college, however, most of the people I met were White. Thus, I made a lot of White friends and I realized that they weren’t so different from my Asian friends. Two of my wingmen are white also. But why make non-Asian friends? Simple. Because they are going to lead you to meet non-Asian WOMEN. That’s the first step. Make it easy to meet White girls and you’re going to have yourself some new relationships with White girls.
Pull your White girl into the Asian world
The Asian culture is absolutely fascinating. Although we hear the term “Yellow Fever” mostly about White guys, the same term can apply to White women. Most women of all races absolutely LOVE to learn about different cultures, and if you happen to meet one that is narrow minded, then forget about her. That’s not someone you want to give your time to anyways. When you meet this White woman of your dreams, expose her to your culture. Take her out to an Asian restaurant. Teach her how to use chopsticks. If you’re just meeting her, talk to her about something interesting that relates to you being Asian. However, DON’T overdo this because if you start just talking about Anime or Korean soap operas every minute of your conversation, she is not going to be very receptive, especially if she herself doesn’t like Anime or Korean soap operas.
Show her that you’re no different from any other guy
The problem with a lot of Asian men is that they fulfill the stereotypical Asian role when they meet women. What I mean by that is they portray themselves as effeminate and weak or nerdy and anti-social. Present to the White girl that you are absolutely NOT like any of those stereotypes. You’re cool, you’re confident, and you know how to socialize. You’re no different than that White guy she used to date.
Take time to learn dating skills
Yes dating can be learned. This is probably the MOST important tip out of all of these tips because if you don’t know how to impress women the right way, then you’re not going to have as much success as you could. You’re going to need a foundation of basic social dating skills. I can’t teach it all to you in this article, but you CAN learn from my dating e-book, The Advanced Asian. Check out more information about my book at my website, AdvancedAsian.com. And remember to subscribe to my mailing list for your free report entitled Asian Men: Advance Your Dating Life.
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Written by Steven Lin